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Do I have to share my exact location?
No — and the app is designed to be useful without it.
Short answer
No. The map works from an approximate area of about 500 meters, and you can post a request with no location shared at all — suitable approved helpers can still be offered it. Precise location only exists after a specific helper accepts and you consent, and it ends when the request is complete.
The facts, in one place
- Approximate area is the default view.
- No-location requests are supported.
- Precise sharing needs an accepted helper plus your consent.
- On supported iPhones, precision finding requires both people to opt in.
When sharing more is worth it
A five-level parking ramp at eleven at night is the case for it. So is a snow-blind lot where every car is a white lump. When the description would take four messages, precise location saves both of you twenty minutes.
When to keep it coarse
At home, near home, or anywhere you would not want a stranger to be able to return to. Name a public meeting place instead — a store entrance, a campus building, a lit corner of a lot — and walk to it.
Questions people actually ask
Can I turn location off in iOS?
Yes. Location permission is managed in iOS Settings, and turning it off does not lock you out of the app.
Does the helper keep my location afterward?
Exact sharing ends when the request is complete.
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Who can see my location on Help Me?
Live requests show an approximate area of about 500 meters. Exact location is opt-in after a helper accepts, shared only with that person, and ends when the request closes.
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Approximate location
Live help on Help Me shows as an approximate area of about 500 meters, not a pin on you. Precise location moves only after accept and consent.
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Nearby Interaction
Help Me precision finding uses Apple Nearby Interaction on supported iPhones, and only when both people opt in after a helper accepts.
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How location works — and how it does not
Help Me shows a coarse ~500 m area, not a pin on you. Exact location is shared only after a helper accepts and you consent.
how-to
Meet in public. That is the whole rule.
Public meeting places for Help Me in Fargo, Moorhead, and West Fargo: unions, libraries, grocery vestibules, malls, and lit lots — not home pins.
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Safety, said plainly
Approximate location, approved helpers only, private chat, public meeting places, and report/block tools. Help Me is not 911.
Help Me is a community app for adults in Fargo–Moorhead. It is not a K–12 student program, not a youth chat, and not campus police.