Help Me

The small stuff

The day stalls. Nobody is in danger. You still need a hand. These pages are the honest list of what that looks like in Fargo-Moorhead, and the equally honest list of what a neighbor is not.

Short answer

Help Me is for small favors that take under five minutes in a public place: a phone charger, directions, a jump start in daylight, saving a seat, two more hands for something heavy. It is not for emergencies, repairs that need a license, or anything that needs a tow truck. Those have their own official help.

The facts, in one place

  • One sentence is enough to ask. Details are optional.
  • Favors are small, public, and done in minutes.
  • Nothing that needs a license, a tow, or 911 belongs here.
  • Help Me is not an emergency service.

A sentence is enough

Open the map, choose I need help, pick a category, and add a sentence if you want. A category on its own still makes sense to a neighbor. Details and a public meeting-place label are optional. Your request is not posted to a timeline or argued over in a group thread. It is shown to helpers nearby who are online and suitable for the category.

When someone says yes, a private chat opens between the two of you, you meet in public, and both of you mark it done. A request closes on its own after two hours, and you can have only one live request at a time.

Neighbors, not a marketplace

Help Me is not an emergency service, not campus police, not a paid marketplace, and not a locksmith or tow dispatch. A jump start is someone with cables. A flat tire is a spare and a jack, not a shop. If you need a contractor, hire a contractor.

  • Cars: a jump start in daylight, a flat tire, a shove out of snow.
  • Walking: a walk to the car, a walk with someone, directions.
  • Around town: a phone charger, a seat held, a lost item, a local guide.
  • Hands: something heavy, a move-in, groceries up the stairs, tech help.

The ground rules do not change by topic

Helpers can apply to be reviewed by our team. Help Me does not run background checks. Requests show as a rough area about 500 meters wide, and exact location is opt-in after someone says yes. You can report or block any member at any time, and delete your account from inside the app by typing DELETE. Help Me is in beta on TestFlight for iPhone (iOS 15 or later).

Help Me is not an emergency service. If someone is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency number.

In this section

Questions people actually ask

No. Help Me is not a paid marketplace. Helpers are neighbors who applied and were reviewed by our team. Do not expect a professional, an invoice, or an arrival time.

If it is small, public, and a neighbor could actually do it, ask in a sentence. If it needs a license, a tow truck, or 911, use that instead.

A request stays open up to two hours and then closes. You can try again. Only one live request at a time.

Help Me is a community app for adults in Fargo–Moorhead. It is not a K–12 student program, not a youth chat, and not campus police.